When Your Husband Chooses "The Other Woman"
I t was a 2:00 o'clock in the morning confrontation with my husband, "the other one" and me. This i called the zenith of my amatuer- investigative-work after a month of suspicion over my husband's infedelity. The hard-painful truth was infront of me - he indeed was cheating with this girl! And then everything stopped when he dropped the bomb "Yes, I am in love with her! There I thought, the father of my three kids had finally left us and we are so over. Mixed emotions fluxed. It was literally a three sleepless night. I took a leave from work, couldn't think straight. My weight dropped from 60 kg to 55 kg. (stress is an effective slimming tool, haha). It feels like I hit rock bottom. How did I get over this nightmare? "CRY IT OUT!" I cried mercilessly. And to my amazement, after each cry I feel good. It is as if I have been purged from the grief, sadness, anxiety and frustration. Judith Orloff, Assistant Clinical Professor